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STOP BLAMING OTHERS


    Stop blaming others


    Blaming others is a ridiculous act. There are many reasons behind blaming. Blaming others gives you pleasure, for a short amount of time, but really is not solve your issue. 

    If you are blaming others continuously, means you are hiding your mistake. Being accountable is very important in our life. We are responsible for our own mistake or a problem. You are the ruler of your life, if you are blaming others, that will be a sin to you by you.

      Why people blame others? There may be many reasons behind it. We only blame others, to satisfy our self. Successful people do not blame others. Before blaming others, see behind, it will help you to see the reality. 

     The reality of blaming, people like to prove themself good rather than others. It is not a good attitude.

     Criticism differs from Blaming, it clears what is right and what is wrong but the blaming not like that people blame because they have jealous of them.

Reason for behind blaming others
  • lack of admitting
  • to harm others
  • jealousy
  • For the sake of self-defense
  • to control others
  • to feel proud
LACK OF ADMITTING

     Lack of admitting is one of the reasons for blaming. They won't realize their mistake, they think only about themselves. some people understand about their mistake but because of their behavior, they won't accept by themself. 

     Admitting as it helps you to move forward in your life. Lack of admitting makes you stuck in one place. Admitting one of the keys factors for the change in life.

 TO HARM OTHERS

      Some people do it to damage others. Their intention is to harm, maybe the previous incident makes them anger, still, now they didn't forget about it or it may another reason to harm you.

     People are hurt by the previous incidents so they want to prove themself correct or they need to take revenge .thats why they harm.

     Try to handle this or else it will pay you bad incidents in your life. If you are hurt by people, go forward tell them this incident makes me hurt, and don't try to harm people.

 JEALOUSY

     Jealousy is also a significant reason for blaming. This kind of person had jealous, so they want to attack, by blame for an accident or some other things. We can easily find this kind of person.

     By their activity and behavior, we can able to find them. Ask the reason for their behavior or avoid them.

 FOR THE SAKE OF SELF DEFENCE
     
     People want to produce themself by accusing the situation, person, or another thing. These kinds of people evaded by blaming other things. They explain our situation, according to the listener's mindset, so the person never asks a question again.

 How to  rectify blaming

     By acceptance, we can rectify accusing others. Acceptance makes you feel guilty, so the person experienced his mistake, it may be smaller or bigger. This experience makes to him a lesson. so he didn't do it again.

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